tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5318549041357339547.post7450204052916191462..comments2012-08-04T17:59:40.496-05:00Comments on Off to see the wizard: Why I stayed quiet (NIAW)Bethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16825847429838977694noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5318549041357339547.post-34332675047487213922010-05-03T06:06:54.725-05:002010-05-03T06:06:54.725-05:00Hi Beth so glad to see you are back. I know what y...Hi Beth so glad to see you are back. I know what you mean about not wanting to be subject to the judgement. Methotrexate to resolve an ectopic is in no way an abortion-ugh that is so awful you had to hear that. I just can't believe those comments she made to you!! I agree with the previous commenter-I don't think IVF is playing God either because there are no guarantees. IRL I am very guarded about discussing my infertility and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I get where you are coming from!!AnxiousMummyto3https://www.blogger.com/profile/13249605078664682478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5318549041357339547.post-42850575907073338172010-05-02T17:00:19.217-05:002010-05-02T17:00:19.217-05:00I am Catholic myself. My sister was very open to ...I am Catholic myself. My sister was very open to tell me that we were "playing God." She was totally against it. I know what you are going through. Its so hard when you dont have your family or closest friends there to help you. I always tell people that God created IVF to help us. And no matter what the procedure...God is still in control. The embryos dont have to fertilize...its all in Gods hands. Hang in there and know that I understand!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5318549041357339547.post-64840346924136829512010-05-01T08:17:14.549-05:002010-05-01T08:17:14.549-05:00Honey...
You cannot feel guilty (that's totall...Honey...<br />You cannot feel guilty (that's totally the Catholic guilt in you!:) ) for what others think. And, you can't feel guilty for feeling the way you do. This is a really personal experience and everyone goes through it differently. Do it all in your own time, but know you have support behind you no matter what!The Hopeful Elephanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00004038685351656184noreply@blogger.com